5 Years and Changing Perspectives

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My Mom has been going through old emails to paint a picture of all the places we’ve traveled together. During her investigation she stumbled across an absolutely hilarious email I sent her 5 years ago. It was a response to an email she sent me with a link to an article about the different ways to retire early. Let’s see what my response was 5 years ago:

Sent: Thursday, August 23, 2012 9:37 AM
Subject: Re: Retirement
Interesting. Thanks for the article, however I don’t think I’ll be able to save 75% of my income and feel like I’m living life. I’m already pretty frugal and like the fixing instead of buying/bike instead of car (already kind of do this), but things like renting out the place you still live in and always making your food instead of buying it would seem to get in the way of enjoying this amazing city I live in. 
I’m sure when I move somewhere else where there’s nothing to do and only chain store it will be easier. All good advice. Thanks so much Mom. I love you!
Also what would I do if I retired at 35?!?!?! Boooooored. You know my recent revelation that I don’t like not working when other people are. Maybe I should start looking for early retirees now so we can hang in the future.

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Hi,
I signed up for some blog or something on retirement.  It has different articles that I thought you might find interesting – especially the one about retiring early like at 35.  It talks about saving 75% of your income and fixing things instead of buying them, riding a bike instead of having a car, making your food, finding other ways to rent where you live (house sit etc).  http://moneyover55.about.com/od/howmuchtoretire/tp/How-To-Retire-Early-Rich-Or-With-No-Or-Little-Money.htm?nl=1
It’s a bit extreme but I like its perspective and showing a different option.

What a difference 5 years makes. To provide a little more perspective: at the time I sent this email I was making $35,000 and supporting myself and my boyfriend in Manhattan. We were completely broke. The thought of saving 75% of my salary when our rent alone was taking about 75% seemed impossible to me. I was also unemployed during this time. I had quit my first, toxic job without a back up. I found the days I spent looking for jobs and basically waiting for my boyfriend and roommate to get home unfulfilling. Everyone I knew had a job and was busy during the most beautiful times of the week. I thought the solution was to not retire because I would be bored with people at work – though I do like my semi-joking idea about making retiree friends I can hang out with. My young self couldn’t have known that I’ve now done that through the wonders of the internet – mostly Twitter.

Anyway, almost 2 years exactly after I sent this email I created my plan to retire early. I was sick of it. 2 weeks of vacation, rarely seeing my family and all my mental energy going to creating ads to sell people shit they don’t need. Here I am 3 years after that: less than 4 years from retirement at 31….a fair amount earlier than 35 MWAHAHAHA!!!

It’s crazy how perspectives can change so quickly. I now make 3x what I was 5 years ago so saving 75%+ is much easier. I still do eat out a lot though keto and getting better at cooking has decreased that a lot this year. I didn’t need to move to the middle of nowhere to decrease my spending and it didn’t take much to increase my income and savings rate. Life is a funny thing.

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