How I Negotiated A 25% Salary Increase Over Email

I’ve come to a horrifying and fascinating realization: the less you care, the more you get. And this new truth makes me SO mad šŸ™‚ because I care too much. I always have. I’ve always gone above and beyond on school projects…even when I attended a Montessori middle school that didn’t give grades. Continue reading “How I Negotiated A 25% Salary Increase Over Email”

No, Iā€™m Never Having Kids.

Let’s get right to it: Iā€™ve never wanted children. Interestingly, the decision not to have kids is one of the few things in life that you have to defend not doing. Now that my friends have moved past an abundance of weddings weā€™ve entered the ā€œbaby makingā€ phase and I now get more questions about why I donā€™t want children than any other decision in my life (including retiring at 30ā€¦). Continue reading “No, Iā€™m Never Having Kids.”

The Month Of Rest: Early Retirement Month 4 (January 2021)

Welcome to a new year! After tweeting about a lot of random thoughts and wildlife encounters, someone on Twitter called my life “excitedly mundane” and I think that is a compliment šŸ™‚ . So let’s see what kind of ridiculousness I got up to during the first month of 2021. Continue reading “The Month Of Rest: Early Retirement Month 4 (January 2021)”

Why Pursue Financial Independence? Because Nothing Lasts Forever

There is a question I am often asked on podcasts, in interviews and even at times in person: Why should someone pursue financial independence? I have heard this question as a response to someone telling me that they “like working” or “love their job” and my answer has always been because “Nothing lasts forever.” Continue reading “Why Pursue Financial Independence? Because Nothing Lasts Forever”

Cancelling My International Retirement Travel: Credits, Points and Money Lost

My Mom and I love to travel. Growing up, travel for us consisted of the 90s stereotype: road trips with 5 people stuffed into a sedan AKA my nightmare šŸ™‚ . However, when I was in college, my Mom got a job at an airline and a whole new world opened up to us šŸ™‚ . Continue reading “Cancelling My International Retirement Travel: Credits, Points and Money Lost”

Lessons Learned After 6 Years Of Blog Writing

Surprise!Ā It’s been exactly six years since I started my journey to financial independence and started writing this blog (though I only took it public July 2018). Today I want to celebrate by reflecting on anything new I’ve learned in the last year since my 5 year anniversary post.Ā  Continue reading “Lessons Learned After 6 Years Of Blog Writing”